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Loving Our Autistic Son

Posted June 1, 2007, by Terryann

Hello, I would like to share a couple of idea's. I have a 17 year old son with Autism, and when I hear your story about how your son speaks, even in anger, I think how wonderful it must be to have a verbal son. I would like to ask you , have you ever heard of the Autism Treatment Center of America? It has a Son'Rise Program that is specifically designed for parents and family with children of special needs. (Autism). This loveing and non judgemental program is a wonderful approach to how you can help your child as well as yourself. I refer so many folks to look up Option.ore or just The Autism Treatment Center on the web. IT WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR CHILD AS WELL AS HELP IN SUCH A'WAY YOU COULD NEVER HAVE BELIEVED POSSIBLE.. please know their is help in this world. Also. When your son act's out, do you ask him what is bothering him in a way, where he knows you really want to know ,without a judgement about his behavior?,Children with Autism can sence the fustration and neg. feelings so much that I wonder why he's so troubled, if he is disruptive it is a call for attention or something is really upsetting him.. Please know their are no mistakes, it is your child that is teaching you all how to handle the world and what it has to offer. Good luck on your journey and feel free to E'mail through Holonation for more info .. Love and thoughts, Terryann

This post is a reply to Question How to support an Autistic child?
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Terryann (2 years ago)

to Terryann: I must celebrate you for your understanding of your son and your desires to improve your life. I have also wondered why god would give me a son with Autism when it has been aparent that my intire life I was shy and lacked confidence. I must say, things have changed completely. I believe that god gives us tools to better ourselves and when we are weak at something , we are offered challeges that we do rise to the task. I don't think that you have a problem with patients but more the lack of tools to master your skill of patients.My son is almost 18 and is really stuggling with understanding simple concepts. He is low funtioning and I must always remember how our idea on life is not always what we think. Very simply put, The cause is in the future.I wonder sometimes what life would be like if we were never challenged. Bliss or Miss. Thank's for writing. From one loving parent to you... Terry Ann


Terryann (2 years ago)

to Terryann: Hello drlove, don't know if you remember me, Terryann. We shared a course at the Option Institute last year. Just wanted to say hello and send blessings your way this new year. I do hope all is well and I look forward to much love and kindness in my world this year. the best to you, drlove.


spudcan (2 years ago)

Terryann Wanted to wait before responding. My son is now 12 and has gained some weight and is no longer under weight. He plays special Olympic basketball and is reading at a grade 5 level. He is a happy child. He still stuggles with the mornings on school days. We have learned better how to deal with the mornings. When I first posted this question it was not how to support an autistic child but how to support me as a father to better deal with starting my day off in such a negative way. I have always felt truly blessed to be the father of such a beautiful child but just never understood why God would choose someone with such poor patience to be the father of such a wonderful child. I thank you for your response and wish you and your son a continued joyful life.


Terryann (3 years ago)

to drLove: Hi drlove, This is terryann. Thanks for the feedback on my post. I actually feel so Blessed receiving Young Michael and what he has taught me about my life and the journey's we go though. I think often about how I will transform this wonderful gift in the most sharing opportunity for as many people and children that I may be Blessed with. I have found your letters and comments so warm and touching that I do hope you will continue to keep in touch often. I am inspired by you and feel great Love for people I know are beautiful. Remember , Autism Rocks, God's children will save our world, in the most profound, simple way.. with our Heart. ttfn.. Terryann


drLove (3 years ago)

Hi Terryann. I've read your post on another site (Greatest Hits 2007) and your journey with your son is truly inspirational. They say that God never gives us more than we can handle. God must think parents of autistic children are very strong, - and very special!! What a blessing you are to your son.




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