drLove: What your wrote in your comment sounds funny, but it could be as useful and revolutionary for someone like me as is focusing what "I want for myself" for a pessimist.
Well, then this would be perfect for you peter. All you need to do is focus on wanting to focus on the needs of other people. How does it make you feel when you focus on that? Keep focusing, and soon you'll be Mr. Good Samaritan incarnate! that or the First Worker!! hahahaha :):):):)
I think this works splendidly for pessimists (ie. "that won't work for me") and youth, decently for optimist-pessimists (ie. "stop or go? stop or go? I need more time"), and no so good for optimists (ie. "the world is my oyster"). The reason is that the last group have been already focusing on their own wants all their life, and what they need more is to take a minute to focus on the wants and needs of others. But for pessimists and youth, I'd give this 5 stars.
drLove: What your wrote in your comment sounds funny, but it could be as useful and revolutionary for someone like me as is focusing what "I want for myself" for a pessimist.
Well, then this would be perfect for you peter. All you need to do is focus on wanting to focus on the needs of other people. How does it make you feel when you focus on that? Keep focusing, and soon you'll be Mr. Good Samaritan incarnate! that or the First Worker!! hahahaha :):):):)
I think this works splendidly for pessimists (ie. "that won't work for me") and youth, decently for optimist-pessimists (ie. "stop or go? stop or go? I need more time"), and no so good for optimists (ie. "the world is my oyster"). The reason is that the last group have been already focusing on their own wants all their life, and what they need more is to take a minute to focus on the wants and needs of others. But for pessimists and youth, I'd give this 5 stars.