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The Cottage and its' magic !

Posted July 26, 2009, by kim

     Reflections of cottage life go back as far as I can recall. Mom and Dad built it when I was a wee babe and I knew no other place to spend the summer but by the lake. What an awesome summer life creating amazing summer memories to hold and cherish .The cottage summer job scooping icecream, flipping burgers and making golden frenchfries was a great opportunity to mix work with fun. I had that job for 7 summers and met some great friends and boyfriends. The last and best boyfriend is my husband of 24 yrs. We were married in the little chapel in the woods by the lake August 10/1985. This morning we went to the church service in that little chapel and it felt a little like going home. We spent a week at the cottage with the family and enjoyed the swims , the water sports, fishing , early morning coffee and Grandpas homemade icecream. It was a wonderful week of fun.

          The passage of time  includes adult children(who can drive to the cottage on their own) and teenage neices and nephews who are now doing the cottage boyfriend/girlfriend thing...... all of which should make me realize my current stage in life.Miraculously I believe the cottage holds some kind of Lake magic, because when I am there I am the little girl in the red bathing suit playing endlessly by the shore. I am the 7 yr old who learned to ski on a cold August day.I am the 10 yr old canoeing around the lake pretending I was a missionary in a third world country. I am the adventurous girl sleeping in the treehouse in the boat and any other place I could dream up that my parents would allow. I am a teenager falling in love (more than once). I am a young adult earning money by scooping icecream so I could pay for college. I am the excited bride standing outside the chapel arm in arm with my Dad. I am the the newly married girl walking out of the church with my favourite guy anticipating a lifetime together. I am a young mother watching my children learn to swim in the shallow lake front while I looked on with pride.It is a magical place of precious memories that come to life in living colour . All I had to do was go there with my heart open and the magic of the lake's waves of memories washed over me filling me with goodness , love, appreciation for each moment.

 

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kim (11 months ago)

Thanks for the reminder to be thankful on a daily basis for the positive childhood I was blessed with. That is not to say there weren't difficult times but when we are given the tools and support system within our family of origin we possess a unique strength to cope with life's adversity, which in turn is less stress over time on our bodies. I think the key to optimal health is daily balancing ourselves in all three areas.(Physical,Spiritual,Mental-emotional)When I am not feeling well it is usually an imbalance somewhere and I need to take time to find where. Since most people fail to examine their spiritual or emotional state I would say you are right that our bodies feel it physically the most because it is more socially acceptable.(eg.saying "I have a sore back as opposed to I have a wounded spirit") Which brings me back to the family of origin again . A place to freely express yourself and be accepted for who you are and loved unconditionally, promotes a healthy environment for learning those coping skills. Funny how a little cottage story can hold within it so much depth. Thanks for opening up my eyes to see it Peter.


peter (11 months ago)

Lyrical. What a wonderful read. And what a wonderful childhood you had. My daughter is in a parent-participation pre-school. Parents get together and talk about lots of stuff, including our own childhoods. It's so obvious which parents had wonderful childhoods like you did, and which had the opposite. I'll bet, as a nurse treating very sick people you regularly come across patients who had very difficult childhoods. I say this because I suspect that a great deal of illness arises from issues going back to painful early childhood events, submerged in our subconscious for decades, wreaking havoc on our health as we age.




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